Today’s inauguration does not bring me JOY. I really fear the presidency of Donald Trump and his minions – the anger and retribution, and the damage I believe his policies will bring to our nation. I am sad that a convicted felon who has so much contempt for so many people will be leading us. So, how to find joy?
I am leaning on the feelings I experienced as I watched Jimmy Carter’s funeral a few weeks ago, specifically as I watched the assemblage of past presidents and vice presidents. Now, that gave me great joy. Each of these leaders was kind and respectful towards each other. President Obama was able to share a laugh with President Trump. Vice President Mike Pence shook Mr. Trump’s hand, even though Trump had done nothing to stop those who were calling to “hang Pence”. Even former President Gerald Ford, whom Carter ejected from the White House in the 1976 election, wrote a moving eulogy, declaring Carter to be a very good person and a very close friend.
There was a poignant moment when Vice Presidents Pence and Gore — two vice presidents who chose the Constitution and put the country first to move on from disputed elections — stood and chatted.
These men, (and yes, our country’s leaders continue to be an all-male club), showed that dignity, respect, forgiveness, civility, and maturity are possible. Even after bitter rivalries and harsh words have been spoken, kindness prevails.
Of course, Jimmy Carter’s acts during and after his presidency showed us all how important kindness, generosity, selflessness, and humility, yes, humility, are. He was a genuine person, and many people felt honored to be considered his friend. Most citizens in our country grew to admire him. It was joyful to hear about this man, both his public achievements, but also his private moments with his family and friends.
I will not watch today’s inauguration – I am anxious about what I believe this man will inflict upon our country, especially those who are poor and powerless. I will instead focus on the joy I felt a few weeks ago. A joy in seeing leaders who are respectful and kind to each other. That gives me hope. And it will bring me joy if we can achieve that in the next chapter of our political lives.